Tired of all the Social Media gurus and experts who put all their skills in allowing you to grow your follower base on Twitter or the number of your blog readers or friends on Facebook? Let’s try something different.
How to get less followers
The number of people you’re connected to is not irrelevant. It’s fundamental. Meaning that you need to keep the number of connections limited. Your time and attention are limited, so you can interact only with a restricted selection of people.The main task you accomplish when you interact on Social Media is filtering signal from noise. As soon as the noise increases, you must spend more time and resources in excluding what’s unimportant and have less time for content and connections you want to nurture and benefit from.
You can’t please everybody. And, if you try to, you’ll be less effective on the ones that really matter to you. This is a very basic rule of marketing. That’s the reason why marketing works based on “targets” and “clusters”: you can’t just speak to everyone. Select people you want to build a conversation with.
Wipe out the noise
There are a few tricks to do it.Stop following back anyone who follows you. Forget auto-follow. It’s very unlikely that people might be so interesting to you just because they follow you. They can write to you, attract your attention with clever, fun, emotional, insightful messages and in a thousand ways more. But the action of following doesn’t make them automatically interesting.
Same for Facebook.
Same for your blog. What’s more valuable? A lot of unengaged readers or less – but strongly engaged – community members?
Selfish?
You might say it’s selfish to exclude some people from your conversation. Well, you’re not excluding anyone, but just focusing on a selected group of people, allowing anyone to directly contact you with direct @ replies.It’s also very important that you listen a lot to what’s being said outside the conversation you’re part of. Set up some monitoring tools (e.g. a Google Reader that aggregates results from at least search.twitter.com and blogsearch.twitter.com). You’ll be warned when something’s being said that could matter to you and you can choose whether or not to interact. Through listening you’ll find out new people you want to follow and add to the group of people you follow.
Let’s get back to the question: deciding to focus on people that matter to you is not selfish, it’s an act of generosity to the few people who really matter to you and with whom you want to build a conversation.
Use perspective
Of course this applies to people and brands with different weighs, depending on the effort they’re putting in their social presence and on their strategies and objectives.“Few people”, “A lot of people” can range from 10 to 10000000 followers. The focus is on quality, not on quantity.
Find out what the right amount is and…. Go for it.
What's your take? Are you giving your followers the best of your attention or spreading it to anyone?
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